We took our firstborn to college today.
I expected her to cry,
I expected her to worry,
I expected to cry myself,
but none of that happened.
Everything about today just feels right.
She is far enough away to appreciate the distance,
but close enough for us to get to her quickly, if need be.
Maybe because of all she has gone through
to get to this point makes me elated and not sad.
There were times during her illness
when I let those dark thoughts in
and thought that maybe this day will never come.
I think I have a different appreciation
than the normal parent who dropped their child
off to college on their own for the first time.
Or maybe tonight when I go to check on her
and she isn't in her bed I will sob for her.
But as of this moment,
it just feels right.
This is truly a new chapter in her life
and I just know she will soar!
"The return makes one love the farewell” -Alfred De Musset
Ry, I know you will continue to make us so very proud.
I love you,
Mom
It is a special time. Good luck to her. You should be very proud! My eldest just pays me the occasional flying visit but she rings me often. It is good to know she still needs me a little bit!
ReplyDeleteYou're stronger than most Mothers ever dreamed they would ever have to be. Check on her tonight anyway, and it's okay if you cry. Big girls do cry. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteHappy days indeed, Jody!! So glad for Ryan. Is Bobby going to school somewhere close by?
ReplyDeletewhat a momentous day!! Happy hugs all around! :)
ReplyDeleteand if you cry later- thats good too ;)
So sweet. This is lovely.
ReplyDeleteI hope if you do shed a tear it is for joy.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to both of you! I always hesitate a bit when someone asks me if I'm sad that Hope is leaving again. I'm not, really - b/c I am so happy that she has found a university that she loves!
ReplyDeleteSuch a happy day :)
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for all of you!
Oh Jody, just look at her! She looks so happy and so beautiful! So very happy for you!
ReplyDeleteYou might not have cried but I did when I read this LOL New beginnings and the next chapter - well done you for taking it all in your stride. Sending big hugs xx
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