Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Big Time Crush -Part 2

Happy Valentine's Day!
In honor of this love-filled day,
I can only think back to last year on this day
when Erin met Kendall Schmidt from the music group
Big Time Rush for the very first time.


What an impact that day had on her life
and his little act of kindness will never be forgotten,
by her or by me either.
Here is the story to remind you:
http://jodywenke.blogspot.com/2011/02/big-time-crush.html

Middle school has not been very easy for Erin.
While most 11 year old girls are very extroverted
and into clothes, make-up and being popular.
My girl is on the shy side, but sweet, funny and adorably quirky.
All she wants is for her peers to be nice to her
and lately, they are anything but.
Heartbreaking as a parent, to say the least.
There are issues that I can't discuss on the blog
but these reasons have made it difficult for me
to find the joy in blogging and scrapbooking as well.

But in late November of last year, Erin found out that Big Time Rush
was going to be doing a signing of their new CD
at a mall less than an hour away for the first 800 people
who bought their CD.
So early that morning, I drove Erin and her sister Megan
to hopefully be one of the 800 lucky ones to get to meet the group.
We got there @8:00 AM and we were so early, that they were #25 and #26!
While waiting in line for what would be hours,
you tend to revert to childhood and sit on rides
that are made for toddlers:


Luckily, my mom lives close, so we went for a visit.
We ventured back around 2:00 PM, and the line already
had at least 100 girls on it.
Every so often, one girl would think they saw the band,
which would set off pandemonium
in the sound of hundreds of shreiking girls.
Quite the lovefest ;)


Here is Erin, resting while waiting in line,
holding a photo of their first meeting
that she wrote on and hoped to give to Kendall:


Now it is @ 4:30 and the group makes their appearance,
the line has literally snaked it's way around the mall
and there are easily 800 girls in it.
Can you imagine having to sign all of those CDs?


So we can tell with that many people in line,
you get about 5 seconds with each member,
there are security guards telling each child
to move along if they are taking too much time.
Understandable, unless it's your own child :::wink:::

So they finally get to the front of the line,
Megan says the exact same thing to each member,
"I like your smile!"


And Erin in hopes of building up her seconds with Kendall,
blows by Carlos first, avoiding any eye contact. lol:


Then Logan calls out "Hey, don't you want me to sign your CD?":


It was no different with James (who is hidden by Megan):


And then it happens...
Erin is face to face again with Kendall:


She hands him the photo of the two of them and asks him,
"Do you remember meeting me last Valentine's Day?"


(How cute was his reaction?)
He starts to tell her , "Yes, I do..."


And before he can finish the sentence...
her 5 seconds are up and she is whisked away.
He is left waving to her.:


The funniest part of all of this was my husband met us in line
and I gave him the video camera to tape this little meeting.
You can hear him talking on the video to a security guard
who is telling him he can't stand where he is, he has to move,
"Listen man, my wife is gonna kill me if I don't get this on tape!"
I have him trained well ;)

All in all, it was a great day, another one for Erin's memory bank.
Thank you once again Kendall Schmidt, for making my girl so happy!


Happy Valentine's Day to you all!
-Jody

27 comments:

  1. Erin is adorable. I'm so happy she got to meet Kendall. I can't wait to show my daughter the new pictures, she is a huge BTR fan herself!

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    1. Thanks Kelly! Tell your daughter they are even nicer and cuter in person :)

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  2. They seem like a great group of guys!
    How cool for her :)
    I am sorry that she is dealing with some rough times.
    Ugh...if only everyone could just be nice.
    The world would be such a happy place!

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    1. Thanks Mary Jo! ITA, it costs nothing to just be nice, but it seems to be a foreign concept in her school :(

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  3. (Going through a bit of the angst with my little girl as well. I wish kids could just be a little nicer and more compassionate.) SO very cool that she got to meet Kendall again! And TOTALLY AWESOME JOB of capturing the moment AND "recruiting" your hubby. Way to train him!

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    1. Thanks Kyla! I feel for you and your daughter, there is nothing harder than seeing your child being hurt
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  4. YAY for well-trained hubbies!! So glad that Erin got to talk to Kendall again and give him the picture. My girl was unique and quirky in school, definitely followed the beat of a different drummer, and was also very, very shy. Teen girls can be so mean-spirited, I know - my DD absolutely HATED school. Big hugs to Erin. No way mean girls can take things like these happy memories away from her!! You are such an awesome mom, Jody!

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    1. Thank you Carol! We try telling Erin that these middle school years are such a small amount of her life that it won't matter later when she is older, but in her 11 yr old mind, she thinks life will always be like this :(

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  5. what a sweet story! Sorry to hear your daughter is having a hard time though. I have an 11 year old too whos is a bit quiet and struggled with friendships. She has just moved to a new school (Grade 7 in Aus, maybe your middle school?) and she finally is starting to find her way. Hope things look up for you all soon.

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    1. Thanks Deb! I am happy to hear your daughter has adjusted well :) Sadly, my daughter will be with these same children for the next 6 years.

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  6. my heart breaks for your poor middle school aged girl. those are the worst years. Erin is lucky to have a mommy as good as you. Lay the smack down on those meanie pants!!!!

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    1. Thanks for your support, Meagn, it means alot :)

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  7. I feel all teary reading this. I hope things get better soon.

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  8. I'm a mess. Your post made me start crying. My daughter is 13 and dealing with the same issues. She is quirky, pretty and smart, a deadly combination in a group of snarky teenage girls! I tried my best to prepare her for middle school and I think it did help, but she still struggles with some of the *snottier* ones (for lack of a better or politically correct word). If only we could give them the confidence we know they'll have later in life!

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    1. Hi Beth, sorry to make you sad, but I wanted my readers to know somewhat the reason I am not around much these days. Trying to deal with these issues of Erin's have made me feel out of control in a way :( I hope our girls realize sooner than later just how little these girls will mean in their lives. Hang in there mama, and I'll try too!

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  9. Please let my daughter win her name is Samantha I’m her mom Leanne she loved BTR she likes them all but her favorite is Logan I’m writing this for her she has no idea the reason that this would be great is because she has had a rough 5 months her grandfather had a major stroke which ended him up in a wheelchair when this happened she stepped up and put her own life on hold to take care of him when he needs anything she will do it or him all he has to do is ask at the same time she goes to school an is in band she has kept her grades up all I would like to do is have her dream come true I’m a single mom and I have two other daughters to take care of so I can’t afford to buy her tickets to their concert in Illinois the cost between 1280.00-1499.00 for a meet and greet with them this is the only thing she really wants to do please help a 16 yr olds dreams come true

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  10. I do remember last year's story, it was so cute! The new chapter is cute, too! Hopefully the guy will have a better memory from now on! ;)

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    1. Thanks Agata! Nice to "see" you again :)

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  11. How cool that Erin got to meet him AGAIN. What a sweetie, that look on his face says it all. Still sending lots of hugs and prayers for your sweet girl. She deserves so much better. Hey, have you read the book Queen Bees and Wanna Be's? You might get some good insight into how to help her handle all of the yuck at school.

    Luv ya!
    Lisa

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    1. Hi Lisa! I will definitely look for that book. I will take any help I can get...

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  12. Forgot to say, love that photo at the end of the post. She is such a cutie!

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  13. Poor Erin - my daughter has been through the same things too - hang in there :o) Love the photos and a well behaved husband lololol

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    1. Thanks Nikki! I will hang in here as long as it takes :/ And the well trained husband took years to train ;)

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  14. What a great post Jodi! Thanks for sharing (I LOL after reading your hubby's remark!)

    xxx

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  15. I've read this story (both parts) about a thousand times and can't get enough of it!! It's definitely the most sweetest, cutest, amazing BTR fan story I've ever heard. :) Kendall is also my favorite of the band and like your daughter Erin, it's my biggest dream to meet him. I felt terrible when I heard you say that for a while, Erin had struggles with kids at school. I'm learning disabled and also a special ed student and in MS/HS, how you described it was the same way for me. I also loved how Erin was able to see Kendall again. She's a very lucky girl. I'm very happy for her. :)

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